Smith Center didn't work out. It didn't take long for that to end. My marriage is very well broken also. We JUST got married.....it's so upsetting that my husband is still so afraid of getting hurt, he makes it happen to others (ie: ME).
When you are married, you seriously can't sweat the small stuff. If it's a tiny argument. DONT make it into a bigger one and destroy your marriage over something that would have been forgotten about in a couple hours. It's not worth forgetting why you love each other. And please, please, don't EVER go to your mommy or daddy or any relative with your issues. Because they will be against your spouse and will be hateful and make things worse.
In the Bible it says in Matthew 19:6. "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."
And I say "let no man or woman" Cause my mother in law is a BEAST! I am sure many women feel this way about their husband's mothers. Marry to please God. Marriage must involve three persons: God, the husband and the wife. Enter the marriage relationship fully realizing the life long commitment and that God forbids divorce (Matt. 5:32; 19:9). Choose your marriage partner carefully. One should never enter a relationship, as intimate as marriage, with those who refuse to honor Jesus as Lord (2 Cor. 6:14-18).
For marriage to be the joyous relationship that God intended, the husband and wife must never take one another for granted. We must allow the light of love to endure within hearts that are open to a loving Father and His Son. Thoughtfulness, gratitude, and concern for one another must be ever present in a marriage. Perhaps the following practical rules for a happy married life will make marriage the life long union that God intended it to be (Eph. 5:22-33; 1 Peter 3:1-7).
~ Never both be angry at once.
~ Never talk at one another.
~ Never yell at one another, unless the house is on fire.
~ Let each one strive to yield more often to do the wishes of the other.
~ Let self-denial be the daily aim and practice of each.
~ Never taunt with a past mistake.
~ Neglect the whole world rather than one another.
~ Never make a remark at the expense of one another.
~ Never part for a day without kind words to think of during absence.
~ Never meet without a loving welcome.
~ Never let the sun go down on your wrath.
~ Never forget that marriage is ordained of God, and that His blessings alone can make it what it ought to be.
